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Radical Community, by Phil Ware
Disappointed. Distrustful. Disconnected. Forgotten. Neglected.
Unnoticed. Unneeded. Unused.
Those are just a few of the terms I hear from folks when they talk
about their bad church experiences. Granted, I know many who feel very
differently about their "church experience," but for those who have
opted out of "church-in-a-box," these words feel true. Yet there
remains a deep yearning in all of us to connect with others and be a
part of something bigger than we are -- to be part of a place where God
is present and their presence is important to the group.
Jesus promised that when we meet together in community -- even in very
small numbers -- he is present (Matthew 18:20). Yet very few have taken
time to look at the radical community the Lord describes and says is
crucial for our walk with God. We have a tendency in our politically
correct climate to neglect this call. Maybe it's because of the harsh
and vivid images. Things like ...
* putting a donkey-sized millstone around our neck and being thrown
into the sea (Matthew 18:6)
* gouging out our eyes or cutting off our hands if they lead us to
sin (Matthew 18:7-9)
* being thrown into the fires of Gehenna (Matthew 18:8-9)
* being handed over to the officer of torture in a prison (Matthew
18:34)
Jesus is using a common rhetorical device called hyperbole. But don't
read that as meaning exaggeration: Jesus is using shocking language to
communicate the urgency and importance of the message he is sharing. He
wants to shock us into listening. And as I have wrestled with this
chapter this past week, I have felt like I have lived through one of
those old movies of a nuclear bomb test site -- you know, where the
atomic winds blow past everything, they dissolve, and then are swept
away. I have been convicted, shocked, and challenged. My first response
was to ask, "Jesus, why is this so important to you that you use such
strong language and such harsh images? Why are you so adamant?"
His answer is clear. We desperately need this kind of community --
those outside the church see us as fake and many who have left feel
abandoned and neglected. Eternal destinies are at stake and redemptive
community is crucial to help all of us through life. We are precious to
God -- the term that is used here repeatedly is that we are God's
"little ones" (Matthew 18:6; Matthew 18:10; Matthew 18:14 -- in
Matthew, Mark and Luke, the term "little ones" refers to disciples of
Jesus and not to physical children.). God doesn't want any of us to be
lost or to perish (Matthew 18:14). He wants all of us to find community
.. and his presence.
Unfortunately, churches often toss around family language and the close
language of community to talk about themselves. Yet all too frequently,
these words do not have the substance to back up the talk. People feel
cheated and lied to when they realize the language isn't real!
The good news, however, is that community can be real. And when it is,
Jesus is present. Those who have experienced genuine community know
this is true. And for those who don't believe they have ever had this
kind of experience, Jesus lays out four principles for radical and
genuine community:
1. I have to be accountable for my actions and my influence (Matthew
18:6-9). While I will have to face God for the things I have done
while on earth, the issue Jesus is talking about here is the sin we
commit that causes others to stumble and sin through our influence.
I have to be willing to be responsible for the influence of my own
sin. Living in community does mean we take into consideration the
impact of what we do on those around us!
2. I have to reach out and rescue those in trouble (Matthew 18:10-14).
Like a shepherd that goes in search of his lost sheep, I must be
willing to go out and find those who are part of my community that
I know are in trouble (James 5:19-20). In community, I am my
brother's (or sisters') keeper!
3. I have to hold those who sin accountable and work to redeem them (Matthew
18:15-20). These may be some of the most ignored verses in the
Bible. Jesus makes clear, rather than gossip about someone or
condemn them in some other way, I am responsible to go, to help my
friend see the error of his or her way.
4. I need to forgive those who sin against me, and do so generously
from the heart (Matthew 18:21-35). Jesus has forgiven me with great
generosity and love; I must do the same with others who have
wronged me.
His answer is clear.
Notice that each of us is called to these four forms of community. This
is not just for leaders -- elders, pastors, ministers, counselors, or
teachers. Each of these principles is found in other places in the New
Testament. Jesus, however, puts them together in one place and says,
"Live with me in genuine, radical community!" And when we do, we help
others know they belong. We help them find their way in a world of
conflicting voices. We make sure they receive the love and acceptance
of Jesus in strong, yet tender, ways. And as we do, in the risk and
challenge of it all, there in the middle of trying and our hurt and our
moments when we think it is too hard and not possible, the Lord shows
up among us, and we experience the presence, might, and grace of Jesus.
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Wow! Strong stuff from Jesus. How do you feel about all of this?
Do you believe we practice these four principles of community very
well?
Why are they important for genuine community?
I'd love to get your comments about this and other ideas on community
on my blog:
http://thephilfiles.com
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(c) 2009 Phil Ware <phil@heartlight.org>. All rights reserved.
RELATED LINKS:
* Made 2BN Community
http://www.heartlight.org/articles/200901/20090112_2bncommunity.html
* Less than Advertised
http://www.heartlight.org/articles/200707/20070702_advertised.html
* Real Community
http://www.heartlight.org/articles/200712/20071219_community.html
* Southern Hills Church of Christ
http://www.southernhillschurch.org
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